The Bitch University
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Stop shrinking. Start leading.

The Bitch University is for high-achieving women who are done running their lives from depletion. Real boundaries. Real revenue. Real confidence, without burning everything down to get it.

10+
Years in business development
4
Core pillars: Beauty, Pleasure, Power, Presence
90
Days to reset in The Glow Up Reset
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Coach. Direct access. Lindsay Jacobi.
Lindsay Jacobi, founder of The Bitch University
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Lindsay Jacobi, coach, founder, the woman who figured it out the hard way.

You already know this

You've been the strong one for so long you forgot what you actually want.

You're the person everyone relies on. The one who says yes when every part of you wants to say no. The one who shows up no matter how exhausted you feel. Somewhere along the way, being available stopped being something you do and became who you are.

You give more than what's asked. You charge less than what you deserve. You tell yourself you'll fix it later. But later keeps moving.

Nothing is wrong with you. You were never taught how to lead from a place of non-negotiable self-respect while staying heart-led and grounded. That's exactly what we build together.

Release the compulsion to fix, over-give, and stay endlessly available. You are not responsible for everyone's comfort.

Set non-negotiable standards in your business and relationships without guilt, apology, or second-guessing.

Charge what you're worth, protect your time, and build a business that grows because of your boundaries, not in spite of them.

The Glow Up Experience

Beauty. Pleasure. Power. Presence.

Four pillars. One complete framework for women who want to feel as good as they look on paper.

The Founding Belief
"Success without vitality is not success at all. You don't have to choose between building something significant and feeling alive in your own life. You get to have both."
Lindsay Jacobi, Founder, The Bitch University
Meet Lindsay

Built through depth, not burnout.

I know what it means to have a full life, business, family, relationships, and still feel quietly disconnected from yourself. Successful on the outside. Tired on the inside. Running. Pushing. Wondering when life stopped feeling luminous.

I believed for years that momentum only came from effort. More discipline, more pressure, more doing. What I gained in productivity, I lost in presence. Fulfillment faded. Energy thinned. That moment changed everything.

I've invested deeply in my own transformation, learning from world-class mentors in business, leadership, and personal power. With over a decade in sales and business development, I know what it takes to build success without forcing or hustling. The Bitch University was built for exactly the woman I used to be.

My clients don't need to work harder. They need permission to lead differently.
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Lindsay Jacobi
10+ YearsSales and Business Development
World-ClassMentors and training
1:1Private coaching
Client Results

Women who stopped over-giving and started thriving.

Working with Lindsay gave me permission to focus on the quiet voice that was telling me to slow down and prioritise my wellbeing without guilt. I finally feel like I'm leading my life instead of surviving it.

Private Coaching Client

Sometimes it's not about the weight or the work, it's about how you feel about yourself. Coaching gave me constant motivation and someone who pushed me forward on both good and hard days.

Glow Up Reset Participant
Programs

Pick your entry point.

Three ways to work together, depending on where you are and how deep you want to go.

Not sure where to start? Take the 5-minute quiz.

Find out which program fits where you are right now. No email required to see your result.

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The Podcast

The Virgin, The Beauty and The Bitch.

A conversation for high-functioning women who are capable, busy, and outwardly fine, but quietly disconnected from themselves. We talk about identity, body confidence, nervous system regulation, routines that actually work, and what it really means to feel radiant, grounded, and at home in yourself again.

Without hustle. Without restriction. Without starting over.

Get in Touch

Ready to stop running on empty?

Reach out directly. Tell Lindsay where you are and what you're trying to build. She responds personally.

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The Brand

This is where ambition meets ease.

The Bitch University is a personal development brand built for high-achieving, deeply capable women who are done building their lives from a place of depletion. This is the story behind it.

Lindsay Jacobi

I know what it means to have a full life and feel empty inside.

You're holding everything together, business, family, relationships, yet somewhere along the way, you've begun to feel disconnected from yourself. Successful on the outside. Tired on the inside. Running. Pushing. Wondering when life stopped feeling luminous.

You crave ease. Confidence. A sense of radiance that doesn't require burning yourself out to maintain it. And yet you've been told that achievement comes at the cost of joy. It doesn't. I know, because I've lived the other way.

For years, I believed momentum only came from effort. More discipline, more pressure, more doing. What I gained in productivity, I lost in presence. Fulfillment faded. Energy thinned. And I realized: success without vitality is not success at all. That moment changed everything.

The Bitch University was created for high-achieving, deeply capable women to step out of burnout and into alignment. To reconnect with your feminine power. To build a life that feels grounded, magnetic, and deeply nourishing, while still expanding in every area that matters.

This is where ambition meets ease. Where success feels as good as it looks.
See the programs Work with Lindsay
Lindsay Jacobi
10+ YearsBusiness Development
CertifiedCoaching training
Experience and Alignment
"I've invested deeply in my own transformation, learning from world-class mentors in business, leadership, and personal power. With over a decade in sales and business development, I know what it takes to build success without forcing, hustling, or burning yourself out."
Lindsay Jacobi
Client Words

The results speak for themselves.

Working with Lindsay gave me permission to focus on the quiet voice that was telling me to slow down and prioritise my wellbeing without guilt. That changed everything about how I run my business.

1:1 Coaching Client

I stopped believing success required suffering. Lindsay showed me that setting boundaries isn't a betrayal of your values, it's the fullest expression of them.

Glow Up Mentorship Client

Find out which program is right for you.

Take the 5-minute quiz and get a clear next step, no email required.

Free Quiz

Which version of you are we working with?

Answer 5 honest questions. Get a clear picture of where you are and exactly what to do next.

The Bitch University Quiz

Find Your Entry Point

This quiz takes 5 minutes and tells you which program fits where you are right now. No email required to see your result.

Question 1 of 5
When you think about your energy right now, which description fits best?
Completely depleted, I give everything and have nothing left for myself.
Functional but flat, I keep going but I'm not really thriving.
Okay on the outside, quietly disconnected inside.
Building momentum, I just want tools and accountability to go further.
1 of 5
Question 2 of 5
What's the relationship between your boundaries and your business revenue?
I don't really have boundaries. I say yes to everything and it's affecting what I earn.
I have some but they collapse under pressure, especially with clients.
I'm working on it, I know what to do, I just struggle to hold it consistently.
My boundaries are mostly solid, I want to refine and go deeper.
2 of 5
Question 3 of 5
How do you feel in your body and about your identity day to day?
Disconnected, I don't recognise myself and I'm not sure when that happened.
At war with my body, I cycle through restriction and giving up.
Okay but not radiant, there's a version of me I used to be that I want back.
Pretty grounded, I want to refine my presence and how I show up.
3 of 5
Question 4 of 5
What would feel like the biggest win 90 days from now?
I wake up and don't immediately feel behind. I have energy for myself again.
I'm charging what I'm worth and not apologising for it.
I feel at home in my body and genuinely like what I see.
I'm leading with authority in every area, business, relationships, self.
4 of 5
Question 5 of 5
How do you prefer to do the work?
I want direct, private access to a coach who actually knows my situation.
I want a structured program with clear milestones I can follow.
I want something self-paced I can work through on my own schedule.
I want to start with something free and see if this is the right fit.
5 of 5

Your result: The Glow Up Mentorship

Based on your answers, private 1:1 coaching is where you'll see the biggest shift. You're not someone who needs a formula, you need a real partner who can see you clearly and hold you to what you actually want.

See the Mentorship program
Self-Guided Resource

The Boundaries Workbook.

The tactical companion to everything Lindsay teaches. Real frameworks, real prompts, a structure you can use starting today.

The Boundaries Workbook
What's Inside

Stop theorising about boundaries. Start building them.

This workbook is the tangible, write-it-down version of the work Lindsay does with clients in her 1:1 programs. It is built for women who are done reading about changing their lives and ready to actually do it.

Each section is a standalone module you can complete in 20 to 30 minutes. Work through it linearly or come back to the sections you need most.

What's included

  • Module 1: Mapping your current boundary patterns, where they hold and where they collapse
  • Module 2: The Over-Giving Audit, what it costs you in time, money, and energy
  • Module 3: Building non-negotiable standards without guilt or apology
  • Module 4: Pricing frameworks, charging what you're worth and holding it
  • Module 5: Nervous system regulation tools for the moments limits get tested
  • Module 6: Your 30-day boundary practice plan with daily prompts
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For the woman who's ready now

This workbook won't change your life on a shelf.

Every section is designed to produce a result in under 30 minutes. If you want the full transformation with Lindsay's direct support, the Mentorship is the next step.

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The Bitch University, Programs

High-level coaching for women who are done playing small.

Three programs. One through-line: you stop leading from depletion and start building from a place of genuine power.

Flagship, Private 1:1

The Glow Up Mentorship

The Glow Up Mentorship is a high-level, private 1:1 coaching experience designed for women who are ready to shift how they see themselves, how they move through life, and how they show up for what they truly desire.

This is not about doing more or pushing harder. It is about alignment, embodiment, and refinement, so confidence, radiance, and success emerge naturally. Each session is a tailored, strategic reset across style, relationships, business, and lifestyle. You have direct Voxer access between calls for real-time coaching and support.

Apply for the Mentorship Take the quiz first

What's Included

  • Glow Up Deep-Dive Coaching sessions, tailored, strategic, specific to you
  • Nervous System and Energy Work, release stress, restore grounded confidence
  • Feminine Leadership and Magnetism, lead from desire, not depletion
  • Glow Rituals and Beauty Overhaul, a luxurious, simple ritual for your real life
  • Voxer Support Between Sessions, direct access, real-time support
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01

Deep-Dive Coaching

Each session is a tailored, strategic reset across style, relationships, business, or lifestyle, wherever the highest-leverage shift is right now.

02

Nervous System Work

Release stress and depletion while restoring grounded confidence and ease. Regulation is the foundation everything else is built on.

03

Feminine Leadership

Lead your life from desire, not depletion, across love and success. Set non-negotiable standards and hold them without guilt.

04

Glow Rituals

Create a luxurious, simple ritual that fits your real life. Body confidence, identity, and presence that don't require burning yourself out.

05

Revenue Alignment

Charge what you're worth. Protect your time. Build a business that grows because of your boundaries, not in spite of them.

06

Voxer Coaching

Direct access between calls for real-time coaching, accountability, and support when you need it most, not just at your next session.

90-Day Program

The Glow Up Reset

The Glow Up Reset is a 90-day program for women who are tired of yo-yo cycles, tired of thinking about food and their body all day, and ready to finally reach their ideal state and stay there without losing themselves in the process.

Not another season of being at war with your body. This is about sustainable, identity-level change that sticks because it's rooted in who you actually are.

Join the Reset

The Reset Includes

  • 90 days of structured, milestone-based coaching
  • Body confidence and identity work, not restriction or willpower
  • Nervous system regulation tools for the hard days
  • Sustainable rituals and routines that fit your actual life
  • Ongoing accountability and support throughout
Apply now
The Podcast

The Virgin, The Beauty and The Bitch.

Real conversations for high-functioning women who are capable, busy, and outwardly fine, but quietly disconnected from themselves.

Coming Soon

Retreats: where the real work happens.

In-person intensives for women who are ready to do the deep work in an environment built entirely for it.

Retreat preview
2025, 2026

Small groups. Immersive days. Lasting shifts.

The Bitch University Retreats are intimate, in-person intensives designed around the same four pillars, Beauty, Pleasure, Power, Presence, but with the depth and immediacy that only comes from being in the room together. Locations, dates, and applications are coming.

Get on the early access list and be the first to know when applications open.

Work With Lindsay

Let's talk about what you're building.

Send a message. Lindsay responds personally. Most inquiries within 24 to 48 hours.

Direct contact

There is no assistant. No queue. You reach Lindsay.

Whether you're ready to apply for the Mentorship, have a question about the Reset, or just want to know if this is the right fit, reach out. The conversation starts here.

Lindsay Jacobi

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